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What Are the 4 Types of Attachment in a Relationship?

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There are two schools of thoughts about the 4TYPES OF ATTACHMENT in relationship. One school of thought is that we have to take our partner for granted and give them whatever they want no matter what. The other school of thought is that we should work really hard to get what we want, but that it should not be at someone else’s expense.

 

What is the 4TYPES OF ATTACHMENT in relationship?

 

There are many possible answers to this question, but we will start with the basics. When you are in a relationship, one of the key things to keep in mind is that it is you who determines the outcome of your relationship. You decide whether the person you are with is happy or sad, creative or dull, successful or unsuccessful, etc… You are the one who sets the terms.

 

One possible answer to the question of the 4TYPES OF ATTACHMENT in relationship is that there are certain times when we give into our partners. We do this because we feel like we cannot survive without them and because we feel like it would be unfair to leave them.

 

One answer to the question of the 4TYPES OF ATTACHMENT in relationship is that the person who is giving the concession is a part of the “can’t you see it? eye” kind of personality.

 

One possible answer to the question of the 4TYPES OF ATTACHMENT in relationship is that there are certain times when we feel like we cannot live without our partner. If we do not get what we want from the relationship, then we find someone who can give it to us. This person is the “bad cop” and the “good cop” in the relationship. When you’re involved with someone like this, you have to watch out for the bad cop and the good cop.

 

The bad cop is the one who is always taking advantage of the other person and who gives concessions that they know they will never get. For example, if you go to your boss for a raise, but your boss knows that you were intending to take the promotion anyway, and gives you the concession anyway, this is the bad cop.

 

The bad cop is usually someone who is selfish. They look out for themselves and want to be in power, but will not let others get in their way. They have a sort of Machiavellian attitude which suggests that they know what’s best for you, and may even have a hidden agenda. This may mean that the person is greedy, self-centered and totally self disconnected.

 

The good cop is usually the opposite of the bad cop. They will be there for you and not put up with selfishness or self-interest from others. However, they will also make sure that you get what you deserve and will even tell you when you are not being fair to yourself or your needs.

 

One interesting thing about the types of people who tend to fall into one of these archetypes is that many seem to have trouble changing and maintaining these relationships. So even though you may have everything planned out, it’s likely that the other person just won’t get it, or may resist your attempts to change.

 

The fourth type of attachment is the friend/s. If you are a friend, you are likely to try to convince someone else to do things for you. This often doesn’t work, because you’re arguing from the position of being a friend, and trying to get your friend to change his/her mind about doing something. Because of this, you will tend to be very unreliable as a friend, since your friend will likely be suspicious of your motivations.

 

The fifth and last archetype is that of mentor/mentee. A mentor is the opposite of a friend, since he is looking to help you instead of trying to change you. If you are open minded and willing to learn, a mentor can be a great person to have as a confidant and adviser.

 

The most important thing to realize when dealing with these types of relationships is that you should treat them with respect. Different people have different expectations and they shouldn’t dictate how you should behave to them, but if you don’t treat them like you would your best bet would be to avoid them, since they would resent it.

 

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